May 8, 2017
Yay! someone asked me what my brother's name was and I was like "Landen.... well actually, it's Elder Bailey...woooah"
Mom, haha you were chaperones at prom? What an interesting adventure :) Sounds like you're SUPER busy! In my opinion you should just not worry about cleaning the house, there's far more important things to do than clean something that the little boys are just gonna get dirty again.....lol. Well that's my philosophy at least. :) but you should be happy to know that I've made my bed every day I've been on the mission and I've never left clothes on the floor (mostly out of fear of the spiders and scorpions getting in my clothes) but when I told my comp how my room at home was usually slightly below par, she was super surprised. So I guess you could say I'm a changed woman. haha we'll see if it follows through after the mish :)
So we were teaching an investigator and it was her birthday and she was like come with me, I'm gonna feed you guys, and she literally insisted. And we showed up at someone else's birthday party and it just happened to be one of the richest guys in Tepoz and they gave us free food, we were super confused, and our investigator tried to get us to ride horses, and then we left. Seriously weird!
Uh...as far as the baptism went, it didn't happen. But it wasn't because of him. We found out monday night that we had a "super" important meeting on Thursday at 4 (the baptism was planned for thurs at 4) yeah, apparently this meeting was more important than baptizing one of God's children, so our leaders made us postpone. I just don't understand if it was soooo important, why didnt they tell us about it sooner?? But it is all good, it's gonna happen for sure this Thursday! But the meeting was actually pretty important, our mission president changed the rule so that now our investigators only need 3 church attendances to be baptized, before it was 5. Pretty nuts!
Sometimes I fall asleep on the bus to Cuernavaca, but my comp and I usually go to bed at like 9:30 or 10, so we're doing pretty good. I'm always tired, but good! And I don't know why, but we've both been super healthy! Take, for example, mole...all Americans and even some Latinos get diarrhea when they eat it, but we ate it 4 times in like 2 weeks, and NOTHING! Almost a little weird. I've really only been sick once, my first week in the field. Milagros!
Culture and tradition is a huge reason why people don't want to hear our message. EVERYONE is Catolica, but hardly anyone actually goes to church or believes (or knows) what they preach. It's just 100% tradition. We've also had a few people who have never had religion and it's just hard for them to accept that there's more. Also right now we're struggling with 2 different investigators who both want to be baptized but can't because one doesnt have permission from her husband, and the other doesn't have permission from his dad. Also everyone works on Sunday, so they can't progress because they don't come to church. Honestly more than anything it's just plain tradition. There's soo much partying in the catholic churches. Someone told us there's like 35 big fiestas every year in Tepoz. so that's like one every week and a half or something, idk, but it's a TON!
Last night, we got home super late from appointments, and still had all of our weekly planning to do, so we sat down to do it, but then it started raining, actually pouring, actually it just full on dumped on us! So naturally we went outside for a few minutes :) and came back in dripping, yaya I love the rainnn!!
It was my comp's birthday on saturday!!!!! So I of course woke up at 3 am and decorated the casa haha. and guess what? when I was blowing up the balloons, one of them popped, AND SHE DIDNT WAKE UP! she slept through everything! we didn't do a whole lot to celebrate, and we're poor, but we got a tiny cake and some candles, and I smashed it in her face muahahaha :)
Our new hair. I cut 6 inches and Hna Shook chopped off about 10 inches!!
Also, I bought a Mexican blouse and we were nice and festive for 5 de Mayo (which other than no one has school, no one down here does anything to celebrate 5 de Mayo! Also chips and salsa is totally not a thing down here, so America's views of Mexico are a little skewed)
Love, Maelynn
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A note from Maelynn's companion:
Hello!!! I am Hermana Shook!
I just wanted to send you guys a little email and let you know how AMAZING your daughter is!! Oh man. Hermana Bailey has been learning the language and the life of a missionary incredibly fast! She has such a sweet heart and you can feel her love for this work and for every one of our investigators and the members here in Tepoztlan. (:
It has been such an honor to be her trainer. Even though most of the time I feel like she is the one training me lol!
BUT she has officially finished training and she is not my little baby anymore. She is all grown up now. lol
You guys have raised one heck of a daughter. And it has been such a memorable experience to be compañeras!
con todo mi corazón,
Hermana Shook